Tuesday, 13 December 2016
A few truths about the Egyptian man
If you can avoid the Egyptian man, do it. They are secretive, insecure, and will do everything they can to dominate you. Completely attached to their mother, you will always be second best. Your view will never be taken seriously, and they are not averse to giving you a slap when you show strength.
A few truths about English men
Watch out for the English man. If you take a stand to protect your rights as a strong single woman, you will discover that the English man is very chauvenistic and condesending, with no respect for women and their viewpoints. They will attempt to dominate and justify themselves by turning you into the wrongdoer.
Monday, 27 June 2016
Implanted False Memory Syndrome, Shiromi Arserio
She comes across as confident, genuine and completely reasonable. What she keeps well hidden is that, she has completely cut her family off, after seeing a therapist who convinced her that she hated her family, and that she was abused, and had no childhood. This is called implanted false memory syndrome, and can happen to anyone, who is basically going through a vulnerable period in their lives, such as grief over the loss of a parent.
The Truth
My little sister convinced herself that she had no real childhood. This is a child whom nobody ever said no to, who was given everything she desired, who had visited several countries including Disneyland before she was 12 years old, enjoyed close friendships at school, went to music concerts, psychic fairs, sci-fi conventions, the Trocadero, the movie theatre, and then she dropped out of school when she chose to. I wonder if she even remembers the amount of money spent on admin and entrance exam fees to the schools she had set her heart on, but failed those exams, yet nothing was said about it. She wanted Halloween parties, so we threw them for her. A birthday in Sri Lanka, oh that's just the worst thing! A school trip week away to France! How could we do that to you?! What terrible people we are, for paying for that trip so you could go! I should not have taken you to Chessington world of adventures so many times, that was just awful of me!
When she complained about the school she was in, we made every effort to get her into one of the best schools. The first computer that came into our home, was bought specifically for her. She had a lovely dog also specifically bought for her. The first pay cheque, at my first job, I spent the money on her. She wanted to learn to play the guitar, my mum went out and bought it for. She wanted to learn to play a piano, guess what, my mum went and got her an electronic one to practice on. She decided to collect Jem dolls, we bought them for her. Every night she was tucked in, and read a story. She needed help with homework, I was helping her, before I even started my homework. When she decided that she was going to spend her own child benefit money on herself, my mother never said no to her.
This is me speaking out, you ungrateful little brat. If anyone lost out on a childhood it was me, having to take care of you, when our parents hadn't come home from work yet, and on the weekends, when I could have been with friends, but gave up that time to spend with you.
When you rang me up in tears, that your husband was going to have a vasectomy because he didn't want children with you, and you thought you might want them in the future, I was the one who calmed you. When you threw your engagement ring away, after having an argument with your fiance, I'm the one who was there to help you deal with your feelings. After you got married, and wanted to visit England so many times, who the hell paid for your ticket every time, that's right your so-called narcissist mother! And then this abusive mother took you on holidays to Prague, and elsewhere while you were visiting England. Wow, what a terrible mother! I'm sure there's plenty of kids who would have ended their lives by that time.
We stood by you all through your life. You write all these lovely posts about my father, and yet conveniently forget the number of times when I gave the phone to him to speak to you, you would get angry at me for doing so. You haven't even sent flowers to his grave-site, let alone visited him. You are a disgrace to this family. I truly feel sorry for you. You've developed an amnesia, that you will never wake up from, and even if you do, it will be too late, because we will have wiped your name from our lives. You may have contact with the wider family, but when you are in trouble, you will soon discover, they won't be there for you. The only ones who would have been there for you, are those you have rejected. Shiromi Nazreen Hussein Arserio, after the things you have said against my mother, I am ashamed of you.
The Truth
My little sister convinced herself that she had no real childhood. This is a child whom nobody ever said no to, who was given everything she desired, who had visited several countries including Disneyland before she was 12 years old, enjoyed close friendships at school, went to music concerts, psychic fairs, sci-fi conventions, the Trocadero, the movie theatre, and then she dropped out of school when she chose to. I wonder if she even remembers the amount of money spent on admin and entrance exam fees to the schools she had set her heart on, but failed those exams, yet nothing was said about it. She wanted Halloween parties, so we threw them for her. A birthday in Sri Lanka, oh that's just the worst thing! A school trip week away to France! How could we do that to you?! What terrible people we are, for paying for that trip so you could go! I should not have taken you to Chessington world of adventures so many times, that was just awful of me!
When she complained about the school she was in, we made every effort to get her into one of the best schools. The first computer that came into our home, was bought specifically for her. She had a lovely dog also specifically bought for her. The first pay cheque, at my first job, I spent the money on her. She wanted to learn to play the guitar, my mum went out and bought it for. She wanted to learn to play a piano, guess what, my mum went and got her an electronic one to practice on. She decided to collect Jem dolls, we bought them for her. Every night she was tucked in, and read a story. She needed help with homework, I was helping her, before I even started my homework. When she decided that she was going to spend her own child benefit money on herself, my mother never said no to her.
This is me speaking out, you ungrateful little brat. If anyone lost out on a childhood it was me, having to take care of you, when our parents hadn't come home from work yet, and on the weekends, when I could have been with friends, but gave up that time to spend with you.
When you rang me up in tears, that your husband was going to have a vasectomy because he didn't want children with you, and you thought you might want them in the future, I was the one who calmed you. When you threw your engagement ring away, after having an argument with your fiance, I'm the one who was there to help you deal with your feelings. After you got married, and wanted to visit England so many times, who the hell paid for your ticket every time, that's right your so-called narcissist mother! And then this abusive mother took you on holidays to Prague, and elsewhere while you were visiting England. Wow, what a terrible mother! I'm sure there's plenty of kids who would have ended their lives by that time.
We stood by you all through your life. You write all these lovely posts about my father, and yet conveniently forget the number of times when I gave the phone to him to speak to you, you would get angry at me for doing so. You haven't even sent flowers to his grave-site, let alone visited him. You are a disgrace to this family. I truly feel sorry for you. You've developed an amnesia, that you will never wake up from, and even if you do, it will be too late, because we will have wiped your name from our lives. You may have contact with the wider family, but when you are in trouble, you will soon discover, they won't be there for you. The only ones who would have been there for you, are those you have rejected. Shiromi Nazreen Hussein Arserio, after the things you have said against my mother, I am ashamed of you.
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